As a docs wife we have to deal with all sorts, and prayer has often been my lifeline. Then, do any of the above morsels of advice matter. With that same attitude they will rise up on the other side of the veil. I would love any advice you can give. It is much easier for the Holy Ghost to influence good people. And can you talk about hard things together. It's all about timing, and you're in two different places. Get her to explain what she believes, and how it might differ from her church.
If you can live with some auxiliary authority in your life knowing that your wife will, as necessary, bend to its will instead of yours, you'll cross those bridges as you come to them. If you are feeling neglected, then tell him so. It might be just a few seconds, depending, but evidence that he's thinking of you. The views expressed by individual users are the responsibility of those users and do not necessarily represent the position of the Church. If you and she are not sealed, your children won't be sealed to either of you. I grew up in a very strict Mormon home and dated only Mormon men until I met my now husband. You can be very committed to someone but only be able to fit them in the limited free time you have. Pickings are slim at church. Read our Exit Stories from Mormonism. Pickings are slim at church.
He was devastatedcalled me every night crying telling me to please go back. We tried discussing his list a few times, but it only ended in arguments. I do my best to keep busy during the day, school, cleaning, organizing, going to the gym and my daughter. The one I met was full of himself, a slob, and really not that great to women. Now just ask yourself what are the odds of her thinking her way out that crazy nonsense. Do you really love him, honey.
Interestingly, my parents felt the same way about him. I am so happy about 'starting' our life together in a few months, but I feel like I am totally setting myself up for disappointment. As soon as she becomes dissatisfied, she will turn face and educate the OP about just how wrong it would be for her to stay with him. Mormons defintely play by a different rule set. He has never said a disparaging word about his mother. Mormon children are advised, in their religion, to refrain from dating until they are at least 16 years of age. I still find it an endearing quality in my spouse, though I miss him sorely.
